What is the thing with this whole sex grumbling? Now it has become a status of liberty for men and women to have sex before they hit the altar? In the days of our parents, it was not so and they married and were happy so what is it with this generation? We begin as children having sex then we get into our marriage and are not interested in having sex. We are incontent with the normal sex orientation so now we try having same sex and have graduated to bestiality now the madness has reached its peak with the use of sex toys.
For the past few weeks i have turned to a Hollywood forbidden actress each time i say that “sex before marriage is wrong” what are we having the sex before for? Asides making babies and cohabiting is it not sex that you will have all the days of your marriage? Some argue; in order to find out if the man is capable? So, the ladies have become the test tubes for numerous men as they seek to know which experiment can be used to form a marital law. The men on the other hand say; they want to find out her character….where did character have its roots from sex? Today’s argument rested on the lady with an immense body odour which they considered could be dealt with during sex and not after marriage that the women were not prone to change after bonds had been signed, how true could that be as the women are saying same about the men… So who is telling a lie in here? Others say the best point of communication is during sex, so how do employees communicate with subordinates? Hmmmm is there anything that cannot be handled or communicated?
With this sex bombing and rampage, how do we curb STDs? How do we differentiate between sex and lust? How do we know when we are truly desired or simply being used? How do we enjoy the figure of sex in our marriage lives without lusting for some movie ideas that relate with our wants and not our needs? How do we curb child abuse, pedophiling and child aggression? How do we tell our children not to do what we have ourselves as adults not practiced? How has sex turned to the air we breath and the water that quenches our crazy thirst? Some people have sold themselves to the devil just for one night of “fun”. Some are not more expensive than a glass of cold water translated to a bottle of water offered by a great Adonis at a point of thirst. So are the gods to blame? The masses? Was there a dysfunction in our upbringing starting in the 90’s as the last sane generation rests in the 80’s? Where did the sex hormones have a prison break and who were the criminal minds that broke into the penitentiary and released them?
The sex issue has been over flogged, ladies everywhere naked like mad men in the name of looking attractive, men on Viagra to meet up or show prowess or ability, children in an ultimate search for adults, men in mission impossible on their quest for juveniles. What do we do to bring our sex hormones to check before we go down the drain? I insist the gods are not to blame, so we better find a cure to this madness but then must we have sex before we marry?
In the beginning it was not so……….